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Originally published on lookwithinyou. You may have never come across this term before, and if you did, you might not have paid attention to it. However, it is an important quality that can save you a lot of emotional inconvenience and suffering. So what exactly is emotional detachment?
It is a state of calmness, and the ability not be emotionally agitated by people, events, and your own thoughts. It helps you conserve your balance and not take things too personally. This is not a state of indifference, and does not mean lack of interest or lack of feeling. People, who are indifferent, do not care about anything, and are usually passive. True detachment is something else. It is an attitude of common sense, open-mindedness and practical behavior.
People, who posses detachment, accept calmly whatever happens. They accept the good and the bad equally, because their minds are in a state inner balance and peace. If they are convinced of the importance of a certain action or goal, they will pursue it with all their heart, ignoring distractions easily. With this kind of attitude, people accept both success and failure. I believe you agree with me when I say that in all these situations, a certain measure of detachment would have been most useful.
When it comes to personal maters, it is hard to stay not involved emotionally. You get involved, and this is quite natural, otherwise, life would have been boring.
Involvement makes life ticking and active. However, a certain degree of emotional detachment would do wonders to your life. This attitude is most useful in your daily life, in the pursuit of ambitions, and of course, on the spiritual path. One of the ways to develop detachment is through meditation. In meditation, you strive to ignore thoughts and feelings. This develops the habit of staying calm and emotionally detached, not only during meditation, but also in everyday life.
If you practice meditation, sooner or later, you will start to experience detachment. You will discover that you stay calm and undisturbed, under circumstances that previously made you anxious, stressed, angry or agitated. You will find that you can handle your daily affairs of life in a calm and relaxed way. Real emotional detachment is a sign of inner strength, and manifests as the ability to function calmly under all circumstances. With this attitude, fewer things harass or bother you.
Do you allow other people to transfer their stress and lack of peace to you? Do you allow negative thoughts, emotions and memories to make you stressed and unhappy? Learn how to let go and be free and happy. Click for Details. August 1, July 28, How many times have you got emotionally involved with something against your will and better judgment?
How many times have you got angry, frustrated or disappointed by trivial matters? How many times have your moods swung high and low? How often, in certain situations, you told yourself that the next time you will stay relaxed and calm, and yet, the next time this situations recurs, you forget what you told yourself?
Examples of emotional detachment. When meditating, a lot of thoughts keep coming into your mind, forcing you to pay them attention, and also awakening associated feelings. This causes you to be too involved with your thoughts, follow them, and forget about your meditation and concentration.
If you could display an attitude of emotional detachment toward your thoughts, it would have been easier to ignore them.
How do you feel, when somebody says something that you do not like? You would probably become angry, unhappy, or feel hurt. Why is this so? Your happiness and actions depend on them. On the other hand, if you are able to stay detached, you will not be disturbed. You will stay calm. You will even be able to benefit from what they say. You will not waste hours thinking about their words.
When something worries you, you spend hours on thinking about it, instead of investing time in finding a solution. You just get pulled into emotional thinking, worries, and fears. Have you ever thought, how much time and energy you waste every day, brooding on useless thoughts and feelings, due to lack of detachment? Much of the anger, frustration, unhappiness and disappointments are due to lack of detachment.
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Emotional detachment is an important skill that can help you maintain a state of calmness, self-control and psychic integrity, when handling your daily affairs of life, in your interactions with people, and when facing emotional demands of another person or group of people, at home, at work, and at any other place. One of the important characteristics of emotional detachment is the ability to avoid getting involved with unnecessary or unhealthy emotions and reactions, and not becoming upset by what people say or do, or by their emotions, reactions or behavior. Emotional detachment also protects you from being upset by external conditions or situations. It does not necessarily change your circumstances, but it allows you to act and react calmly and with common sense, without emotional agitation, which often clouds the judgment and wastes unnecessary emotional and physical energy.
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Do you allow people and circumstances control your life, moods, and state of mind? How do you react, when a driver enters recklessly, and without signaling, into your lane, in front of your car? In these and similar situations, do you, keep thinking about the incident? Do you get angry, unhappy or frustrated? This happens to almost everybody, almost everyday. Just think, how many minutes, and often hours, you spend every day, dwelling on what this person said and that person did. If you take these incidents too personally you become unfocused and inefficient at work, at home, at everywhere else.
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Post a comment. Imagine how free, relieved and happy you would be, if you could stay calm and poised in the midst of whatever is happening in your life. Think how much physical, emotional, and mental energy you could spare, if you could avoid becoming upset, angry or moody. Learn how emotional detachment can help you maintain a state of calmness, self-control and psychic integrity in your everyday life! By Remez Sasson.